F\u00e9lagsleiki er ekki bara ord. \u00deetta er d\u00fdr\u00f0 f\u00f3tboltans sj\u00e1lfs.<\/p>\n
Margir leikmenn sitja vi\u00f0 blikinn og dreyma um a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a hetjur. En \u00fea\u00f0 sem gerir hetjur a\u00f0 hetjum? Ekki a\u00f0eins teknin. \u00dea\u00f0 er getan til a\u00f0 standa vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0 li\u00f0f\u00e9laga, a\u00f0 hlakka til \u00e6finga vegna mannanna, ekki bara boltans.<\/p>\n
F\u00e9lagsleiki \u00ed f\u00f3tbolta er s\u00fa tilfinning \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa gleymir sj\u00e1lfum \u00fe\u00e9r. \u00de\u00fa einbl\u00ednir \u00e1 hinn. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa passar boltann ekki til bestu leikmanna heldur til \u00feess sem \u00fearfnast \u00fea\u00f0 mest. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa hlakkar til \u00feess a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 f\u00e9laga \u00feinn skora marki meira en \u00fe\u00fa sj\u00e1lf(ur).<\/p>\n
Enginn er borinn me\u00f0 \u00feennan h\u00e6fileika. \u00deetta l\u00e6rist. Og \u00fea\u00f0 er erfitt.<\/p>\n
Ekki reyndu a\u00f0 breyta heiminum \u00e1 degi einum. \u00dea\u00f0 virkar ekki. Sko\u00f0a\u00f0u: fyrsta dag \u00e6fingar? Haltu sambandi vi\u00f0 einn f\u00e9laga sem vir\u00f0ist einmana. N\u00e6sta \u00e6fing? Tala\u00f0u vi\u00f0 annan. Sm\u00e1 skref. Endalaust.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 eru endalaus a\u00f0fer\u00f0ir. Haltu s\u00e6ng sem f\u00e9laginn \u00feinn deilir me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed. Bi\u00f0jadu hann a\u00f0 fara \u00ed kaffi. Spyr\u00f0u hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 fer til hans utan vallarins. Manneskjur vilja vera heyrd. \u00dea\u00f0 er allt.<\/p>\n
H\u00e9r er sannleikurinn: f\u00e9lagsleiki endalaust \u00e1n vir\u00f0ingar er bara leikni. Vir\u00f0ing \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hlusta\u00f0ir \u00e1 f\u00e9laga sem \u00fe\u00e9r l\u00edka\u00f0i ekki fyrst. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa skilar honum fyrstu boltanum \u00feegar hann er hetja dagsins, ekki \u00fe\u00fa.<\/p>\n
Og j\u00e1, \u00fea\u00f0 getur slasa\u00f0. Vita. \u00deetta er pr\u00f3funin.<\/p>\n
Forma\u00f0ir og \u00e6fingamenn kunna \u00feetta best. En \u00fe\u00fa? \u00de\u00fa \u00e1kve\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 sj\u00e1lf(ur). Ef \u00fe\u00fa s\u00fdnir gott d\u00e6mi ver\u00f0a hinir me\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 brei\u00f0ist \u00fat eins og eldur. Li\u00f0ir sem hafa st\u00e6rstu samkenndir eru \u00feeir sem segla alveg bestu leikjunum.<\/p>\n
J\u00e1, \u00e6fing skiptir m\u00e1li. T\u00e6kni skiptir m\u00e1li. En \u00fea\u00f0 sem gerir li\u00f0 a\u00f0 hetjum? \u00dea\u00f0 er s\u00fa tilfinning a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt ekki ein(n).<\/p>\n